|Debbie in those days|
Sad news of the passing of the world’s most famous waste disposal boss has Looking Our Best in reflective mood this week. Actor James Gandolfini (aka Tony Soprano) was just 51, and his untimely death is a lesson to us all to live in the moment, and live it to the full. Another fellow New Jersey native of Gandolfini’s is the perfect example of this philosophy. Debbie Harry has just embarked on tour with Blondie and although 67, age is certainly the last thing to stop one of pop’s most iconic performers.
As part of the New Wave music explosion of the mid- 70s (Blondie’s first paying gig was in New York in 1976), Harry has always been seen as someone with a mature head on those tiny shoulders. She was already in her mid-30s when the band released their multi-million selling album Parallel Lines in 1978. She wasn’t, she says, some “poor female sapped of her strength by some heart-throb or un-requited love.”
endowed with such an incandescently pretty face and that trademark platinum mop
top, she was destined to be labelled a ‘blonde bombshell’ from the start, but
her detached stage performances have always been a far cry from the blatantly
sexual overtures of modern day divas. Coming
from the 70s New York punk scene, and a subject of works by Andy Warhol, she
was never going to be just a pretty popster.
Her style was something much more
subversive and assured. Nevertheless,
being the focus of attention was ‘uncomfortable’ at times. What made it
somewhat easier, she has said, was being in a relationship with the band’s lead
guitarist, Chris Stein. Blondie disbanded in 1982 and when Stein was diagnosed
with a serious skin disease, Harry famously nursed him for over four years back
to health. They eventually broke up, but remain great friends (Harry is
godmother to his children).
|Debbie these days|
|With Chris Stein and Andy Warhol|
Asked recently on BBC Radio Four’s Woman’s Hour if she had ever considered motherhood herself, she said that it’s something she now thinks she may have been good at, but had never realistically thought about it much.
“Regret it? I have trained myself not to constantly live in regret. Of course there are moments when I think, ‘why did I say that, or do this?’ But if you are walking around in a world of regret, what good are you going to do for today? “
|Blondie now - never too old to rock n roll|
Her own creative drive remains very much fuelled by those earlier experiences in New York, and she still believes that creativity – in whatever art form – is something that flourishes in an economic downturn. With so many influences, how did she arrive at her own individual style?
“By making a lot of mistakes. We learn from our mistakes, right? I love clothes, I love style, and I love to experiment. It takes a while to discover what you are comfortable in, what looks good.”
It’s hard to believe that Debbie Harry now more than qualifies for a bus pass, but loving what you do – and to keep on doing it – is the key to feeling good, she asserts.
“I thought I’d live to a ripe old age, because I always felt there was a lot to do. I had a driven feeling. I always thought in the present. That’s why I will so enjoy this tour. I love the music. I love performing, seeing other bands. I love hanging around, and generally making a fool of myself. “
Carry on, Debs …